Family Sovereignty Experiment - Costa Rica

Restoring the Village.

March 2026-February 2027.

8 families.

Community Education Village

We Stand At A Threshold.

We Stand At A Threshold.

This is a call to parents.

We stand at the threshold.

Let us walk towards a New Way.

It’s time to reclaim the sacred right of the child. Let us honor their innate wisdom, curiosity, and creativity.

It’s time to reclaim the family unit. Let us restore balance and harmony. Joy in the process. Shared experiences. Screen free bonding.

It’s time to reclaim community. Let us join together to create ease and enrichment. Share our gifts and work towards shared abundance.

It’s time to reclaim sovereignty. Let us foster self-trust, confidence, and resilience.

Imagine…

Imagine waking up on a Monday in your families private hillside accommodations. There’s a light breeze, and here you rarely find yourself hot or cold. Just pleasant.

The kids are still sleeping and you stop by the Rancho, a few steps away, Costa Rican coffee is sitting there waiting for you alongside some fresh fruit, organic and sourced locally. It’s a quiet introspective time, a time savoured in the morning to anchor our days in Self and regulation. You sit out front on your patio and enjoy your coffee, communing with nature, Self, your version of god.

When your children wake up they run to the rancho to meet their friends as they gather their breakfast from the table that waits. There’s options for all diets, with only nutritious options, setting up our days with intention and love. Today you’ve decided to stay in your villa for breakfast as you’re noticing you need more time for cocooning and moving through some things arising to be processed. The village tends to your children - grace always - with no expectations.

The boys race to their Warriorship training. The dads there and ready to lead. Today they are racing through an obstacle course at the waterfall. The girls enjoying movement and dance in the rancho, followed by creative expression with sensory rich invitations. Later they work on a chicken coop build project, each with a specific role - the project designed in response to their different brilliances. Each child celebrated and given opportunities to shine. Purpose bringing greater confidence and collaboration bringing greater results. Their reading, writing and math challenges later all part of a greater process, bringing deeper focus and resilience.

You’ve spent your day working on your creative projects. White space a value we strive for. Time is created for it and space is designed for creativity to flourish. You meet your children at the Rancho for lunch. Their faces beaming, sweaty, dirty, content as you enjoy this screen free space together.

The Rancho, a space of relating. Gathering. Looking people in the eyes. Screens left outside the threshold as we all work towards more real and less artificial. Reclaiming focus and allowing our children’s brilliance to have the chance to emerge when given the space.

Calling in these roles:

  • Experts needed to co-create curriculum.

    Sacred Oak is a shared‑leadership learning village where children are held at the center and supported by a circle of parents, mentors, and wisdom keepers. No one leads alone—weshared responsibility, shared abundance, and shared purpose. Roles within Sacred Oak may be filled by participating families, locals, or global contributors. Those offering core skills may become founding contributors with opportunities for revenue share or future equity.

    THE HEART OF THE SOVEREIGNTY EXPERIMENT

    By joining, you are:

    • Shaping the culture and rhythm of Sacred Oak

    • Contributing to global family programs

    • Building toward your own sovereignty

    • Participating in shared abundance

    • Helping lay roots for potential land acquisition

    • Experiencing a year of purpose and co-creation

    Roles Needed:

    • Project Based Learning 

    • Warriorship Trainer / Rites of Passage Leader

    • ADHD/neurodiversity

    • Somatics/child therapist

    • Feminine wisdom/motherhood

    • Fatherhood

    • Survival skills/bushcraft 

    • Creative Expression Mentor

    • Indigenous or Cultural Wisdom Keeper

    • Herbalism, Gardening Projects

    • Men’s Circle / Dad Support Lead

    • Women’s Circle / Moms Support Lead

    • Marketing Director

    • Business Strategist and Developer

    • Financials

    • Operations / Admin Support

    • Media/ Documentation - Videographer / Editor

    • Event Coordination

    • Local Relations

  • Developmental needs responded to and boys given the space, freedom and environment to move, yell, sprint, build. Their days filled with purpose, high intensity activities and opportunities to lead. Later, they sit down for 40 minutes of direct instruction on reading, writing and math. Missions they embark on with focus and determination, fuelled by their calling into Warriorship. Working towards a Rite of Passage in their teens. Dads and sons mentored by experts, deepening bonds and forging new paths.

    • Marketing Director

    • Business Strategist and Developer

    • Financials

    • Operations / Admin Support

    • Media/ Documentation - Videographer / Editor

    • Event Coordination

    • Local Relations

  • Wildlings

    Ages 4-6

    Philosophy: The Wildlings begin their journey in belonging and wonder. Their days are filled with play, wonder and exploration - forming deep bonds with their caregivers, each other, and the natural world. Safety and attachment come first; from that secure base, curiosity naturally leads them outward to explore. Learning unfolds through movement, imagination, and sensory experience - climbing, digging, building, creating, and pretending. They are honored as capable, whole beings whose play holds real meaning and wisdom. Guided by gentle rhythms, the Wildlings grow confidence, empathy, and trust in the world. In this stage, nature is their teacher, play is their work, and joy is the foundation for all learning. The environment as the 3rd teacher with materials and spaces for freedom. The educator responds to their curiosities.

  • Wayfinders

    Ages 7-10

    - 60 minutes of direct instruction building confidence and skills in reading, writing and basic math skills. Missions, hands on, active, movement, games. Becoming proficient at an expert level because it’s relevant, they are excited. 
    - Free space to engage with materials and complete projects.
    - Play, exploration, movement.
    - Excursions, guided experiences, mentorships
    - Allowing for self governing, playborhood vibes


    Philosophy: The Wayfinders are in the season of skill and confidence - learning to focus, collaborate, and take pride in their growing abilities. Introducing more direct instruction with short, applicable lessons in reading, writing, and math provides a steady rhythm while leaving plenty of room for freedom and movement. They learn best through doing: building, exploring, creating, and expressing ideas in active, hands-on ways. The environment offers choice and flexibility, allowing them to lead their own discoveries while being gently guided toward mastery. We honor their need for autonomy, curiosity, and adventure, offering enrichment that responds to their interests and energy. Structure gives them grounding; freedom gives them life. Together, these create the balance where confidence and purpose grow.

  • Warriors

    Ages 11 to teen.

    Mentorship: think guest experts, work alongside professionals, apprenticeships, volunteering etc. 

    Working towards a Rite of Passage ceremony at 13.

    Philosophy: The Warriors are architects of their own lives -  learning through real-world experience, challenge, and creation. They grow confidence and autonomy through meaningful work, mentorship, and contribution. They learn to transform curiosity into purpose and action. They prefer natural dopamine through adventure, craftsmanship, and real life engagement over the artificial glow. Warriors practice self-expression, discipline, and service, discovering who they are by engaging with the world - not escaping it. They rise as creators and mentors. The work towards a meaningful rite of passage.

  • Parents

    Parents thriving, time for creative projects, passions, presence, relationships and adventure. Deepening bonds with your family and deepening self trust in your Ways.

    Each parent will offer one day a week contributing to the children’s experience, and one half-day per week supporting essential community roles such as cooking or shared tasks. You will be mentored and the planning will be done for you.

    This is how we co-create a village, honour our resources, and steward a future where families are strong, connected, and empowered. We will also have meal plans, weekly cleaning and some packages. come with laundry as well - gifting us so much time.

    Once a week there is an Idea Incubator circle. Discuss, share and support to expand and actualize Dreams.

    Once a week we all participate in Warriorship Training, empowering children to be strong in body, steady in mind, and sovereign in spirit.

    Once a month, women’s circles and men’s circles hosted by experts, wise ones, elders, supporting our growth and integration.

The Guiding Philosophies

We are building a way of living and learning that is responsive to real life—to the world our children are inheriting and the truths our bodies already know. The world is changing, and we are done repeating systems that ask us to disconnect, outsource childhood, silence intuition, and compromise our values for convenience. It is time to create a new way, to gently let go of misaligned habits and patterns, and to root ourselves in what we have always sensed: that family, land, belonging, and creativity are not luxuries, but essential to a thriving life.

Sacred Oak is a return and an evolution. A remembering and a reimagining. A place where children are allowed to unfold naturally, where parents have space to breathe and rise, and where community becomes a source of strength, shared abundance, and possibility.

  • Hands on, project based learning, belonging, shared skills, collaboration, warriorship.

    Designed to honour each child’s unique essence while building confidence, resilience and relationships.

    At Sacred Oak, we believe every child arrives whole—an acorn holding the blueprint of a mighty oak. Nothing missing. Nothing to be fixed. Everything already present, waiting for the right conditions to unfold. Our work is not to shape children into who we think they should be, but to create the soil, the sunlight, the spaciousness, and the community that allows their essence to rise naturally.

    We honor the sacredness of childhood.

    We honor the slow becoming.

    We honor the wisdom already inside them.

    Our role is to tend the conditions: nervous-system safety, belonging, meaningful work, real-life experiences, and mentors who reflect back their brilliance.

    This is not school as we’ve known it.

    It is education as awakening—

    responsive, relational, land-based, creative, and rooted in the belief that children are capable architects of their own lives.

    At Sacred Oak, the child leads with curiosity.

    The adult supports with presence.

    The community rises as the forest around them—

    protective, inspiring, interconnected.

    Where acorns become oaks.

    Where children become themselves.

    Core Pillars of the Sacred Oak Learning Approach

    Child as Sacred
    Each child is viewed as a whole, capable being whose essence is honored and protected. We do not direct who they should become—we support who they already are.

    Highly Responsive, Rich Experiences
    Learning emerges from curiosity, relationship, and hands‑on engagement. Experiences are shaped by observing children’s interests, energy, and readiness.

    Community Creates Balance
    Learning happens within a village model. Children, parents, and mentors share in daily rhythm, contributing their strengths to create belonging, support, and interdependence.

    Attachment & Belonging First
    Secure relationships and emotional safety are the foundation of all cognitive, social, and creative growth. We meet connection needs before instruction.

    Slow Rhythms & Spacious Days
    Unhurried time protects nervous system health, nurtures creativity, and allows deep integration. Boredom, rest, and stillness are not obstacles— they are essential.

    Conscious, Responsible Adults
    Adults model co‑regulation, emotional responsibility, and the willingness to grow alongside children. We meet emotion before instruction.

    Trust the Child
    Children are intrinsically motivated. We allow experimentation, struggle, and meaningful risk, stepping in only when safety, dignity, or care requires it.

    Freedom Within Limits
    Consistent rhythms and clear boundaries provide safety, while choice and autonomy bring joy and self‑direction.

    Creativity as a Way of Life
    Creation—through art, story, invention, design, and making—is a daily practice that fuels purpose and self‑expression.

    Sovereignty
    Children and adults build skills for independence and interdependence: gardening, building, cooking, herbalism, and practical arts that support long‑term thriving.

    Nature as Teacher
    Learning is grounded in land, water, weather, animal life, cycles, and stewardship. We practice reciprocity: take only what is needed, give back what sustains.

    Responsive to Developmental Needs
    We follow developmental readiness over standardized timelines. Play is primary in early childhood; skills emerge through meaningful use and real‑life application.

    What Makes Sacred Oak Different?

    Sacred Oak is not a traditional homeschool collective, a forest school, or an alternative program alone—it is a synthesis of global learning philosophies, nervous‑system‑informed teaching, land‑based practice, and community‑rooted education. The environment is intentionally designed to offer:

    • Real tools and rich materials that make artificial stimulation less appealing
    • Mentorship from skilled adults, artists, builders, and knowledge keepers
    • Projects designed in response to the children present
    • A village model where emotional and practical support are shared

    In this way, learning becomes embodied, relevant, and life‑forming.

  • WARRIORSHIP & INNER STRENGTH

    We honor the developing warrior in every child - courageous, capable, self-responsible, and connected to purpose.

    Boys’ Warriorship (the Wild & Capable Path)

    • Survival skills & bushcraft

    • Fire-making & elemental understanding

    • Martial arts & non-violent strength

    • Navigation & situational awareness

    • Rough-and-tumble play guided into leadership

    • Challenge, perseverance, and discernment

    • Social–emotional learning through guided conflict, expression, and leadership

    Girls’ Warriorship (the Wise & Creative Path)

    • Herbal medicine, tinctures, and plant-relationship

    • Creative leadership & expressive arts

    • Emotional sovereignty & relational wisdom

    • Rhythm, cycles, and embodied intuition

    • Tending to gardens, spaces, and community life

    • Strong mind, deep presence, and clear voice

    • Social–emotional learning through expression, communication, and connection

    Weekly Family Warriorship Training

    Once a week, we gather as families for a warriorship session. This is a cornerstone of the Sacred Oak rhythm.

    Purpose

    • Build resilience and confidence

    • Support developmental needs through movement, challenge, and rhythm

    • Strengthen family bonds through shared learning

    • Teach self-regulation through embodied practices

    • Ground children in their bodies, instincts, purpose, and courage

    • Offer a safe place to express all emotions, be witnessed, be held, and learn emotional mastery

    Approach

    Warriorship blends:

    • Physical skills

    • Emotional literacy

    • Nature connection

    • Discipline and self-responsibility

    • Creative expression

    • Challenge + rest cycles

    • Intentional community leadership

    After warriorship training, we meet as one large group to find coherence - enjoying potluck on the beach or a family brunch. This weekly ritual becomes a bonding staple: a moment of unity, nourishment, and shared presence.

    Parent Warriorship: Embodied Mother & Embodied Father

    Parents are the root system of Sacred Oak. As children grow into their strength, parents grow into their leadership. 

    Monthly Circles for Mothers

    Guided spaces to reconnect to:

    • Intuition

    • Rhythm

    • Emotional regulation

    • Embodied presence

    • Tending the home, community, and the unseen

    A remembering of Mother as grounding force, wisdom keeper, and emotional anchor.

    Monthly Circles for Fathers

    Guided spaces to cultivate:

    • Steadfast presence

    • Clarity of purpose

    • Embodied leadership

    • Strength without rigidity

    • Protection that empowers, not controls

    A remembering of Father as holder of direction, integrity, and vision.

    These circles are mentored by Wise Ones—elders, guides, and experienced facilitators who carry embodied wisdom. Parents learn practices, rituals, and leadership skills that reshape the family dynamic from the inside out.

    Why Warriorship Matters to Sacred Oak

    • Meets developmental needs that modern environments suppress

    • Teaches children emotional regulation through movement, nature, and mastery

    • Strengthens family bonds through shared practices

    • Grows resilient, self-responsible, sovereign humans

    • Restores ancient roles—Mother, Father, Child—in a modern, inclusive way

    • Forms the backbone of the sovereignty experiment: families growing stronger together

     Warriorship becomes a living curriculum of courage, capability, belonging, and purpose.

     

  • Parents deserve more than survival mode. Here, adults have time to enjoy their children, deepen bonds, and repair patterns of dysregulation and fractured trust—not through force, but through presence, co-regulation, and nervous-system-informed guidance.

    Sacred Oak gives parents space to breathe, regulate, and create—to remember who they are outside of the noise. Adults are mentored by experts, supported in expanding into deeper expressions of motherhood and fatherhood, and invited into adventures, shared learning, and rich creative life with their children.

    Families participate in a collaborative education rhythm, community activities while having plenty of time to BE.

    Imagine making soup with sisters while the men prepare fish for the fire.
    Imagine adults carving out time for their passions while children are joyfully held by the village.

    Imagine each parent contributing one day per week to education and shared responsibilities—and it feels meaningful.

    This is interdependence, not burnout. A return to a life where we are supported, resourced, and alive.

  • Sacred Oak is a community held in a field of possibility and expansion—a place where we are not just surviving together, but creating new worlds. Every member’s gifts and strengths matter. We support one another’s visions, businesses, and creative expressions, knowing that when one rises, we all rise.

    The community practices shared abundance—shared skills, shared resources, and shared care. Dedicated time is given for:
    - Vision sharing and business support
    - Idea incubation and collaboration
    - Breathing life into one another’s dreams

    Contributors and experts are valued, together creating ecosystems of mutual flourishing.

    You do not have to do it all. You get to do what you do well, and with heart. There is space to be held, to step back, to cocoon when needed. And when you return, community is still here.

What Every Family Receives

Every family receives a complete, almost all-inclusive living and learning experience designed to support your children, strengthen your family, and root you deeply into your Passions. We will stay in a beautiful area, with it’s own waterfall, pool, jacuzzi, and rancho for gatherings. All accommodations are private allowing you to have your own space whenever you like. Packages range from $3500-$5500 depending on your accommodation choice.

Core Inclusions:

Private Accommodations - varying choices for preference and budget.

All Utilities Included – electricity, water, internet, essential services

Children’s Education – hands-on, responsive, real-world learning

Rich Materials – large budget for quality materials and experiences for the children

Sacred Oak Circle Membership – community planning, shared spaces, experiences

Pool & Jacuzzi Access – resort-style living year-round

Learning + Play Areas – Warrior Course, Anji Play, Maker Station, Forest Play, relaxation zones (will be in development)

Community Rancho & Events – gatherings, celebrations, shared meals

Parent Support & Mentorship – monthly mothers’/fathers’ circles, guidance, shared wisdom

Sovereignty & Interdependence Training – essential life skills in community

Dedicated Community Manager – relationship support + community care

Optional Meal Collaboration – planner support with group or independent cooking

Ready to Take a Step Towards?

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Attend our Zoom: Sunday, November 30, 10:00am CST.

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Perfection not required. This is a time to integrate values with action. Together. Supported.

This is an experiment. We are figuring this out together. We have experts, mentors and each other.

Intentions:

Provide our children with a childhood that honors them and reshapes the View of the Child.

Relearn how to be in Community and allow interdependence to gift us Life.

Mentorship and time for parents to find their own healing and to anchor New Ways into the present.

Solidify the family unit and deepen bonds.

Reclaim time, focus, creativity, passions.

If this feels like you, take the time to feel into it. Discern. Is it a full bodied yes?